Selasa, 01 Desember 2009

Mengajar Anak Mengendali Emosi Negatif


Anak-anak juga seperti kita orang dewasa. Mereka juga boleh berasa kecewa, sedih dan marah. Kadang-kadang kerana mereka adalah anak kita, maka mereka tidak dibenarkana untuk meluahkan perasaan negatif mereka. Mungkin karana itu dianggap menderhaka. Lama-lama mereka belajar menyimpan segala perasaan negatif itu didalam diri mereka. Apa yang menyedihkan ialah tiba-tiba suatu hari ianya meletup dan meletup. Mereka menjadi pemarah, degil, dan bermasalah.

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  1. Child Behavior: what parents can do to change their child's Behavior
    what is a normal behavior for a child?
    Normal behavior in children depends on the child age, personality , and physical and emotional development . A child behavior may be a problem if it doesn't match the expectations of the family or if its disruptive. Normal or "good" Behavior is usually determined by whether it's socially , culturally and developmentally appropriate. knowing what to expect from your child at each age will help you decide whether his or her behavior is normal
    what can i do to change my child's Behavior ????
    children tend to contious a behavior when it is rewarded and stop a behavior when it is ignored . consistency in your reaction to a behavior is important because is rewarding and punishing the same behavior at diffrent times confuse your child . when your child's behavior is a probloem you have three choices:
    1: Decide that the behavior is not a probloem beacuse it's appropriate to the child's age and stage of development
    2: Attempts to stop the behavior , either by ignoring it or by punishing it
    3:Introduce a new behavior that your prefer and reinforce it by rewarding your child ...........
    Zamary Zazai
    Kabul Afghanistan

    BalasHapus

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